I read with interest an
article ‘’Making the Invisible Visible: A Cross -Sector Analysis of Gender
Based Leadership Barriers’’ and I found the Queen bee effect as a barrier to
women in leadership positions interesting. Is this a myth or reality? The idea of a Queen Bee syndrome dates to
research first done in the 1970s. The syndrome encompasses a set of behaviors
ranging from women disparaging typically feminine traits (“Women are soooo
emotional”), to emphasizing their own “masculine” attributes (“I think more
like a guy”), to seeing claims of gender discrimination as baseless (“The
reason there are so few women at the top is not because of discrimination. It’s
because women are just less committed to their careers”), to being unsupportive
of initiatives to address gender inequality. The ultimate Queen Bee is the
successful woman who instead of using her power to help other women advance,
undermines her women colleagues who may even be more talented than her. If
these ‘beta females’ are repressed from within their own gender, surely we have
to ask ourselves what chance they have in a male dominated society? I have to
say, I have seen and known a fair share of queen bees in my life.
Is there some truth in the Queen Bee stereotype? Are women nastier toward
other women than men are to men or than women are to men?
Researches on these kinds of
behaviors have found instances in which it is the case. Some women at the top
fail to help other women or actively prevent their promotion. A while ago a
friend of mine had this to say about a queen bee at her work place: ‘One of the
women I ended up working with had a real problem with me. Every time I said
anything I was accused of being aggressive and defensive and prevented any
attempts of promotion’ Sad isn’t it?
Queen Bee behaviors are not
reflective of some Mean Girl gene lurking in women’s DNA. Rather, to the degree
they exist, Queen Bee dynamics are triggered by gender discrimination,
researchers say.
So what prevents Queen Bee
behaviors? - Identifying highly as a woman. Women who have experienced gender
discrimination but who more strongly identified with their gender don’t react
to such bias by trying to distance themselves from other women.
Remember a candle loses
nothing by lighting another candle.
Food for thought!
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